I wish you Love

By Toni O’Keeffe

February 13, 2020

Valentines day brings with it warm thoughts of romantic love, candy hearts, bouquets of roses tied up with lace, softly lite restaurants filled with couples sipping champagne and nibbling chocolate dipped strawberries off the tips of each other’s fingers.

While this might describe the Hallmark ideal of a perfect valentine’s day, most of us will not experience it this way – at all.

Some will dart to the drug store on the way home from the office in hopes of finding a card with something that “adequately” describes how they feel about their beloved partner. They might also pick up a couple scratch and win tickets and a bag of liquorice(because all the chocolate is gone) to add weight to their claim that some thought went in to expressing their feelings on this, “the day of love”

Some will spend all day preparing oysters and braised Lamb Shanks from “the Seduction Cookbook”, set their table with the best china, red linen and light the cinnamon candles they got last Christmas in hopes of re-igniting a spark that will lead to a romantic tryst with the one they love.

Others, okay moi, will sit at home, curled up with our favorite pets, watching hallmark movies and eating frozen pizza or tuna out of a can. And, I’m okay with that.

Regardless of how you spend your Valentine’s Day, my wish for you is that you do reflect on love. Not just romantic love, but a love for all things and all people, a love that is kind, authentic, brings you joy and extends beyond a single day each year.

I wish you a love that allows you to feel safe and secure in who you are and inspires you to grow into the best version of yourself. A love that celebrates soul-to-soul connections with no expectations only an enduring appreciation, acceptance, respect and admiration for the beautiful, perfect and unique soul that you are.

If you have found the one that sets your heart on fire, makes butterflies dance in your chest and stars shine in your eyes, hold them close and give thanks for the gift of this love every single day.

For those still in search of an epic love, I hope you find the kindred flame, the one that will settle your soul, captivate your mind, make your body tingle and your heart sing.

Most of all, I wish you a love of self, where you see yourself as worthy and deserving of all that is beautiful and good. A love that allows you to be kind and gentle with your heart and spirit as you fully surrender to this amazing journey of life that you are on. Yes, that’s the kind of love I wish you – not just today or on Valentines day, but every day.

Alright I’ve got big decisions to make.

Tuna? Pizza? Hmm, Pizza with tuna?

Happy Valentines Day

Love

Toni ~🌹❤️

What if it was a blessing?

What if, that horrible thing you went through

was a blessing, a lesson designed to give you,

strength and an awareness of that type of pain?

So you’re prepared to hold up others when they meet this pain on their path. Just as others met you.

🌹❤️

You were born with a gift.

You were born with a gift. One thing (or maybe two)meant to inspire, teach or bring joy to others. A gift that only you can share.

It might be found in the art, music, writing or things you create.

It could be in your ability to be compassionate, kind, to heal or make others smile or laugh.

Perhaps you are meant to be a life teacher, a guide, a builder, a person that serves or helps others by listening, understanding or caring.

It’s in you. Even if you have not found it yet, IT IS IN YOU.

That amazing gift that is yours alone, find it, and unleash your magic into the world. And that my beautiful soul friend, is when you will shine your brightest.

(c) February 3, 2020

Toni O’KEEFFE ~🌹❤️

The imprints we leave.

By Toni O’Keeffe

We leave an imprint on the world every single day.

It might be;

~ a smile left on a face,

~ a warm feeling left on a soul,

~ thoughts and images created in a curious mind,

~ bruises to an ego or,

~ aches in a heart.

Our words, our acts and deeds leave others with impressions that can imprint feelings, wisdom, emotions or pain that can last a lifetime and remain long after we’re gone.

Let the sum of all your days, paint a masterpiece that awakens beautiful memories and smiles in the hearts and minds of every life you have touched.

Toni O’Keeffe

(c) February 1, 2020

You will rise

Not everything or everyone, that comes into our lives is meant to stay.

Some things, some people, come to challenge us, others to inspire us and some to teach us.

When they leave, let them go.

Trust that this experience was only meant

to last a little while.

Something better is on the way.

Whatever or whoever it was,

was not meant for you.

This was only a lesson,

and you survived.

Your heart will heal

and you will rise.

Toni O’K~🌹❤️